Free
£0
- Profile and limited discovery
- Basic safety tools
- No private messages
Adults only · 18+
Desire,
discreetly
discovered.
A private place for adults who know what they want. Real verification, quiet billing and total control over who sees you.
- Provider-verified badges
- Neutral billing descriptor
- Block and report, always free
How it works
Three steps from curious to connected.
Create a profile
Free to join, with age assurance and email verification.
Discover
Browse members nearby by intention and interests.
Connect
Members read and send private messages.
Privacy
Your private life stays private.
Only your broad area is ever shown. Emails use neutral subjects. Your card statement carries a plain descriptor. Premium Plus adds incognito discovery so only people you like can see you.
Read the safety centreVerified means verified.
A badge is awarded only after a provider check, never from a tick-box, and every badge explains what was checked.
Gems, only if you want them.
Optional credits for extras like a Super Like. 50 gems cost £5, a Super Like costs 15, and the price is always shown before you spend.
Membership
Free to join. Pay only to message. Renews monthly, cancel any time.
Premium
£19.99 / month
- Read and send messages
- See who liked you
- Advanced filters
Premium Plus
£29.99 / month
- Everything in Premium
- Incognito discovery
- Extra visibility controls
Good questions
Is Desyrvo free?
Joining and browsing are free. Reading and sending private messages needs a membership: Premium is £19.99 a month and Premium Plus is £29.99 a month.
What do gems do?
Gems are optional extras such as Super Likes (15 gems). 50 gems cost £5, and the price is always shown before you spend.
Is my profile discreet?
Only your broad location is shown, emails use neutral subjects, and Premium Plus adds incognito discovery so only people you like can see you.
What appears on my bank statement?
Memberships appear as DSV*MEMBERSHIP and gem purchases as DSV*GEMS. The full site name is never on your statement.
How does Desyrvo check members are over 18?
Desyrvo is for adults only. Every member confirms their date of birth at sign-up and accounts under 18 are refused. Certified age assurance, in line with the UK Online Safety Act, is being added before full access to profiles and messaging.
Is Desyrvo available across the UK?
Yes. Desyrvo is built for England, Scotland, Wales and Northern Ireland, with prices in pounds sterling and data hosted in London.